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Crafting Wedding Vows That Capture Your Love Story—A Real-Couple Guide (Without the Panic Spiral)
Writing your own wedding vows has become one of the most meaningful parts of modern ceremonies. Read pro advice from Rev. Benae on how to do it as painlessly as possible.
revbenae
Jan 214 min read


20 Years of "I Do's": Lessons on Love, Laughter, and Marriage
As I wrap up my 20th year officiating weddings, I find myself reflecting on the incredible privilege of standing alongside couples at the very beginning of their shared journey. I've had the honor of witnessing countless declarations of love—the first moments a couple commits to one another in front of family and friends. It’s a sacred, exhilarating, sometimes hilarious moment—one that never gets old. My very first wedding! And while I guide others through these first steps o
revbenae
Dec 3, 20254 min read


'Dearly Beloved' Isn't for Everyone--Making 'I Do' Feel Like You
Choosing your officiant is more than checking a box—it's choosing the person who will set the tone for one of the most important moments of your life.
revbenae
Sep 16, 20254 min read


The Joyful Journey to the Altar: Hilarious Wedding Stories
In the quest for a perfect wedding, couples find themselves in a series of hilarious situations that can create lasting memories and humble even the most particular of us.
revbenae
Sep 8, 20254 min read


Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: Wedding Wisdom from a Veteran Minister
As I wrap up an unexpectedly long wedding season, I find myself circling back to one of my mama's signature pearls of wisdom. Any time I...
revbenae
Jun 25, 20254 min read
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