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Crafting Wedding Vows That Capture Your Love Story—A Real-Couple Guide (Without the Panic Spiral)
Writing your own wedding vows has become one of the most meaningful parts of modern ceremonies. Read pro advice from Rev. Benae on how to do it as painlessly as possible.
revbenae
Jan 214 min read


20 Years of "I Do's": Lessons on Love, Laughter, and Marriage
As I wrap up my 20th year officiating weddings, I find myself reflecting on the incredible privilege of standing alongside couples at the very beginning of their shared journey. I've had the honor of witnessing countless declarations of love—the first moments a couple commits to one another in front of family and friends. It’s a sacred, exhilarating, sometimes hilarious moment—one that never gets old. My very first wedding! And while I guide others through these first steps o
revbenae
Dec 3, 20254 min read


'Dearly Beloved' Isn't for Everyone--Making 'I Do' Feel Like You
Choosing your officiant is more than checking a box—it's choosing the person who will set the tone for one of the most important moments of your life.
revbenae
Sep 16, 20254 min read


Weddings: A Celebration of Love and Personal Expression
Weddings have changed—a lot. From capes and taco trucks to shot glass unity rituals, today's couples are ditching the rules and making it personal. After 20+ years officiating, I've seen trends come and go, but love? That never goes out of style.
revbenae
Jul 18, 20254 min read
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